New research reveals that empathy is far from “soft,” and it plays a surprising role in predicting kids’ happiness and success.
“What do kids really need to be happy and successful?”
Hundreds of parents have asked me the question, and my response surprises most. “Empathy” is my answer. The trait that allows us to feel with others has the reputation of being “touchy-feely,” but new research reveals that empathy is far from “soft,” and it plays a surprising role in predicting kids’ happiness and success.
The problem is that empathy is widely underestimated by moms and dads, as well as the general public, so it’s low on most child-rearing agendas.
- 1. Be an emotion coach….
- 2. Use the ‘Two Kind Rule.’…
- 3. Talk feelings….
- 4. Capture caring moments…
- 5. Teach: ‘Always look at the color of the talker’s eyes.’…
- 6. Read books….
