Surfing as a Metaphor of Empathy

When asked to define empathy, Dr Marshall Rosenberg compared it to surfing…

 

When you ride the wave, the thrill is so exhilarating that you forget everything else. You live in the moment when nothing else matters, so intent on riding the wave perfectly that you and the wave become one.

 

Pain and worry disappear, replaced by euphoria, akin to flow. Similarly, when giving empathy, you want to strive for this kind of total presence for the person you are listening to.

 

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