Being a parent to a child with Aspergers Syndrome can be tough. Are you looking for the help to “Social Aspergers”. Lack of empathy is the most common sign of asperger syndrome. Your asperger boy or girl do not understand that sometimes when they say or do things it hurts people. Therefore they often have difficulty building friendships with peers. This can be frustrating for the child in every environment. They have a strong desire to “fit in” but don’t know how to go about it and struggle with reading social cues.